Rape and Terrorism
According to the Global Terrorism Database, 3029 people were killed by terrorists in the United States between 2000 and 2010. That’s an average of 275 people per year.
According to the U. S. Department of Justice, there were a total of 52,470 rapes in 2008 (the most recent year for which I could find posted data). Women are victimized approximately four times as frequently as men. Even if you disregard issues of underreporting, that’s about 10,000 men and 40,000 women raped in a single year.
A 2011 Congressional Research Study estimates the ten-year cost of the war on terror at $1.28 trillion, or $128 billion per year.
I couldn’t find an estimate on how much (or how little) the U.S. spends fighting rape and sexual violence each year. However, the Office on Violence Against Women is requesting a total of $412.5 million for their 2013 operating budget. For comparison, the Department of Homeland Security is requesting $59 billion.
These numbers aren’t perfect. But they do help give us an idea about our priorities. Here they are in graph form.
I’m not trying to argue that the budget for fighting sexual assault should necessarily be 190 times the budget for fighting terrorism. But imagine the difference if even a fraction of the money we spent on color-coded terror charts or airport security theater went into preventing sexual violence.
I debated for a long time before writing this post. Both rape and terrorism are important, powerful, and emotional issues, and I don’t want to trivialize either one. But the more I thought about it, the more it made sense to me to discuss rape in the context of terrorism. The goal of terrorism is to create fear in a population. 9/11 succeeded in creating that fear.
So does rape.
The difference is that in the United States, the terror created by rape is a far more realistic day-to-day fear, especially for women. You have less than a one in a million chance of being killed by terrorists this year in the U.S., but according to a 2007 study by the Medical University of South Carolina, roughly 1 in 20 of college women were raped in a single year. (The study notes that only about 12% of these rapes were reported to police.) A National Institute of Justice study found that 18% of women–almost 1 in 5–experienced a completed or attempted rape at some point in their lives.
The prevalence of rape and violence against women creates an atmosphere of terror and the awareness that strangers, friends, even family members could be potential attackers. Phaedra Starling wrote about this in a 2009 essay titled Schrödinger’s Rapist:
“Is preventing violent assault or murder part of your daily routine, rather than merely something you do when you venture into war zones? Because, for women, it is. When I go on a date, I always leave the man’s full name and contact information written next to my computer monitor. This is so the cops can find my body if I go missing. My best friend will call or e-mail me the next morning, and I must answer that call or e-mail before noon-ish, or she begins to worry. If she doesn’t hear from me by three or so, she’ll call the police. My activities after dark are curtailed. Unless I am in a densely-occupied, well-lit space, I won’t go out alone. Even then, I prefer to have a friend or two, or my dogs, with me. Do you follow rules like these? … When you approach me in public, you are Schrödinger’s Rapist.”
Not every woman follows these rules. But many follow at least some, and most of the women I’ve talked to live their lives with this kind of awareness. With the knowledge that rape and assault are a real danger. They make choices based on a risk assessment and constant, underlying kind of fear that’s utterly alien to most men. Not slaves to that fear, but always aware.
How then is sexual violence not a form of terrorism, at least in its effects? But because this kind of violence is seen as a “women’s issue,” we deem it unimportant. We shift our resources to other problems. We play political games with laws like the Violence Against Women Act.
You want to fight a war against terror? Try putting money and resources into the backlog of rape kits. Try funding sexual assault counseling and women’s shelters and SANE nurse programs. Try teaching people at a young age what rape really is. Try teaching men to hold themselves and each other accountable, and to intervene when they see signs of sexual coercion and abuse. Try providing training to prosecutors and judges and police departments.
In other words, try taking the problem seriously.
Stephen A. Watkins
June 25, 2012 @ 9:41 am
I’m sure someone more qualified to discuss than I will also point this out, but the “terrorism” statistics themselves are overwhelming skewed, occurring in a single year, by a single event. That fact alone will skew perceptions about the problem. But that doesn’t say or mean much with regard to your argument. But pscyhologically and sociologically that single event has a larger impact than the aggregate of a many smaller events. It’s kind of like the psychology around the fear of flying: everyone knows that by-the-numbers flying is safer than driving. But accidents in flying are larger individual events, and more psychologically shocking than the aggregate of many smaller car accidents.
Stephen A. Watkins
June 25, 2012 @ 9:45 am
Also, let me clarify quickly and state that I categorically do not dispute your argument. I’m just pointing out a certain aspect of the aggregate sociological influence on the way these events occur, especially vis-a-vis their coverage in the media.
Jim C. Hines
June 25, 2012 @ 9:51 am
Oh, no argument here. Media coverage, the visibility of 9/11 and the concentration of so many deaths in one vivid incident … there are all sorts of factors that play into why that fear is so powerful.
Paul (@princejvstin)
June 25, 2012 @ 10:21 am
A single horrifying incident gets a lot more “play” than the rolling boil.
I remember in the 80’s, New York City news stations played on these sort of “smaller-scale”
fears, but especially after 9/11, terrorism sells and sells big.
Mishell Baker
June 25, 2012 @ 10:21 am
I don’t expect the government to care more about individuals’ welfare than its own PR. Acts of terrorism against the US make the US government itself look weak, and these days the government exists only to serve itself, not its citizens. American citizens are, as far as I can tell, completely irrelevant to the American government except that they expect us to continue funding it.
(Yes, I woke up on the wrong side of the bed today.)
Leah Petersen
June 25, 2012 @ 10:34 am
I think it’s a good point, though, to look at why we have this disconnect so we can better address it. On the whole, terrorism feels Bigger and Badder and it’s something we can Do Something About in a very obvious, public, and expensive way that makes us feel safer–whether that’s illusory or not. Plus it’s something we can all feel outraged about.
Rape is still a Small, Shameful thing that no one wants to acknowledge can happen to them or those they love. Everyone would like for it to just Go Away. Barring that, women should simply Be More Careful, and Stop Making Themselves Victims.
Tracking the money just proves that we’re way off base on this issue when it comes to how we talk about it, how we think about it, and how we address it.
blackcoat
June 25, 2012 @ 10:54 am
Just pointing out that, of the $59B, only a portion goes to directly combating “terrorism”. DHS is an umbrella organization that includes FEMA and Immigration Control, and if you actually look through your linked budget, a lot of that money goes to fighting drug and human trafficking and securing US IT security, and the largest single budget goes towards the coast guard.
I’m not saying that we’re spending enough on sexual assualt (although saying that a single offices budget does not conflate to what we spend on it), but we’re not spending $59B on fighting terrorism, either.
Jim C. Hines
June 25, 2012 @ 10:58 am
The numbers definitely aren’t perfect. Likewise, the Office for Violence Against Women addresses more than just rape. And the U.S. spends a lot of money on terrorism-related issues that doesn’t get channeled through DHS.
I wish I had better and more precise data for this, but I do think the numbers, while imperfect, support the general idea of where our priorities are and where they aren’t.
Hannah Steenbock
June 25, 2012 @ 11:39 am
First I want to thank you, Jim, for bringing this up. It’s a scary fact to see how the priorites are – and I bet they are very similar in other countries. It’s hard to bear how prevalent rape is, and how many victims it claims every single year. I have worked with an assault victim. I know the scars rape or attempted rape leave.
Second, I want to say something about the comments that have been made so far. It’s highly interesting they basically represent a quibble about the money figures. Not a single word about the fear. About the fact that Americans are hurting and scaring Americans in greater numbers than terrorism does (and I wish that nobody would get hurt at all!). The comments here prove the point that people don’t want to look at rape. Like Leah said, rape is something that gets ignored consitently. Even after a post like this one here. It’s easier to talk about the money and the psychological effects of a “big event” than about the fear.
Time to take off the blinds, guys.
Jim C. Hines
June 25, 2012 @ 11:44 am
In my experience, guys in general tend to take a much more intellectual approach to talking about rape. Number-crunching and attempts (sometimes very misguided) at problem-solving, etc.
I agree. I think it’s really important to try to recognize, acknowledge, and understand (as much as we can) the emotional impact and effects as well.
Leah Petersen
June 25, 2012 @ 11:59 am
I just realized, too, that my own comment highlights something Jim has addressed and is a particular frustration of mine: men are also raped but that simply Is Not Talked About. “Prevention” is all about teaching women to be safer and avoid situations where they might become a victim. Women. I don’t know about you, but I’ve never seen that message directed at men. Of course, while taking steps to not put yourself in a rapist’s path is a smart, it’s hardly the only angle of prevention that needs to be addressed.
On a related note, I saw something on Facebook the other day that showed a girl holding up a sign that said something like “I’m a feminist because the message is still ‘don’t get raped’ not ‘don’t rape.'”
Jim C. Hines
June 25, 2012 @ 12:03 pm
Yup. The closest I’ve seen to anything along those lines is jokes about prison rape.
Pam Adams
June 25, 2012 @ 12:03 pm
I read Schrodinger’s Rapist, thinking- but I don’t think that way, only to recognize that yes, I do, but it’s so ingrained in me that I think everyone does it- including men.
C.C. Finlay
June 25, 2012 @ 12:26 pm
Jim, I think you miss the main point with your analysis.
Terrorism is a direct challenge to and an attempt to change the existing power structure. Thus, declaring “war” on terrorism allows those in power to solidify their position by restricting freedoms and focusing resentment and unrest on an external enemy, and enrich themselves at the same time by using the war machine to churn out money for the elites, both through the redistribution of domestic wealth and by cooption of external assets from enemies abroad.
On the other hand, because power is patriarchally concentrated in the United States, which has a lower representation of women leaders than any other country in the free world, and ranks something like 75th overall worldwide, male rape of women, and male on male rape that “feminizes” the victim, works in support of and reinforces the dominant existing power structure. Devoting resources to preventing rape, or to enforcing laws against rape, would actively diminish those in power by expanding domestic freedoms and protections, and, to be effective, would require the redistribution of wealth from economic elites to lower- and middle-class women to improve education, economic opportunity, and social infrastructure that are required to prevent rape.
Now, there is not a single person in power who is going to say “we love terrorists and we also love rapists” and if you look for that kind of smoking gun, you’re going to be disappointed. But make no mistake: Terror serves power. The war on terror and the terror experienced by women in a rape culture both serve the existing power structure.
If you want to change that, you’ve first got to acknowledge it.
Brian Dolton
June 25, 2012 @ 12:56 pm
Yep, this is exactly why attitudes to air safety vs car safety are also skewed. When a plane crashes, hundreds of people die. Car crashes rarely kill more than a few ata time. The drip-feed never has the impact of the single event, until you get one of those media-attention-grabbing events like a whole bunch of people lying down in the street to represent the number of people killed by hit-and-run drivers in a year, or similar.
When things happen as a single event, we think there can be a solution When thngs happen all the time, we decide it’s too difficult/complicated to fix, so we stop bothering. Grr.
Jennifer C
June 25, 2012 @ 1:00 pm
I was raped when I was 14 years old. I knew the person who raped me. He was a friend of a friend, but not anyone I was interested in. I never gave him any indication that I in any way wanted to engage in sex with him. I was 14! I turned away from him trying to kiss me. I told him no. I screamed. I fought. I broke bones in my hand hitting him. I damaged the cartilidge in my knee trying to kick him. I got away after it happened and was picked up by a stranger as I crawled down the street, half naked and bloody, trying to get away. I spent nearly a week in the hospital.
There were 2 other people in the house when this happened. They were having sex, but there is no way they didn’t hear my screams. Yet afterwards, the girl still blamed it on me. The police encouraged me not to file a report, they said it wouldn’t do any good. That it would go to trial and I would be made to be a slut. Just save myself the trouble.
Fast forward a few years. I had run away from my home town where this happened. I came back to visit to my mother and I answered the door when the bell rang. There stood the person who raped me, working for the government doing census surveying. I froze. My dog tried to attack him. My brother’s girlfriend invited him in the house. She knew him. He was one of her friends.
I, of course, freaked out. The entire story came out, again. I had a total break down. I left town again not to return for a few years.
I finally move back to town and I hear from another person I know that he had been arrested and taken to court on 10 counts of rape. I was elated. Then I found out it was considered ‘date rape’ on every charge, and therefore looked at by society as the fault of the woman for dressing too provocatively or any number of other things. He was found guilty on only 1 of those charges, and spent less than 5 years in jail. I have spoken to many of these women, and many more that he also raped but that did not file the charges. There are 17 of us total that I know of, and I suspect many more that I don’t. There were 19, but 2 took their own lives.
To this day if I tell my story, I get reactions making it to be my fault, or not as bad as it was.
It has been over 20 years since this happened. I look for his face in every stranger I meet. I look for his traits in every man. I look for myself in every person in case they may need help. I still have nightmares. A touch that is too rough in play that I *KNOW* is safe, still triggers a reaction. I survived it, but yes…
This is terror.
Sarah E Olson
June 25, 2012 @ 2:00 pm
Your story made me cry, Jennifer. Thank you so much for sharing it.
Another great post, Jim.
I’ve never been raped, but I know too many women who have and it’s just baffling to me that the onus is always on the woman (or man) to PREVENT the rape. The idea that people can still blame the victim drives me CRAZY. No wonder women are terrified. We still have to prove it’s not OUR FAULT. We still get dragged through the mud after experiencing a horrifying and humiliating event.
This whole post just hit me like a brick. These things women do to keep ourselves safe without even realizing that’s what we’re doing. Wanting to look beautiful, but scared of being *too* pretty and attracting unwanted attention. It happens every day; this dichotomy of attracting some yet distancing yourself from others at the same time. And who knows which ones you should be distancing from, when it could be a family member, a co-worker, a stranger…? No wonder we live in fear.
Jenna G
June 25, 2012 @ 9:34 pm
Maybe we should start making murder cases prove that it wasn’t the victim’s fault for getting themselves murdered. It seems like as sound of an argument as blaming women for “getting themselves raped”
Steve Buchheit
June 25, 2012 @ 9:50 pm
At the doctors office today, I was in an elevator alone with a woman I didn’t know. I felt very aware that she checked to see what kind of threat I posed before allowing the doors to close (she was closer to the control panel).
Avilyn
June 26, 2012 @ 9:09 am
As horrifyingly common as rape is, another statistic worth mentioning is Child Sexual Abuse (CSA):
Adult retrospective studies show that 1 in 4 women and 1 in 6 men were sexually abused before the age of 18 (Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, 2006). This means there are more than 42 million adult survivors of child sexual abuse in the U.S.
I don’t know how much money in the government goes for education, enforcement, prevention, etc., but I would wager it’s not enough.
Avilyn
June 26, 2012 @ 9:12 am
Jennifer,
From a fellow survivor, it is NOT your fault. And I’m so sorry that happened to you, and that you were discouraged from filing a report, especially given the condition you were found and brought to the hospital in.
Avilyn
June 26, 2012 @ 9:18 am
The prison rape jokes are a problem too, though, because it contributes to a culture that sees rape as something to joke about, and diminishes the damage rape does to the victim. But you’re right, that’s about the only context in which male rape is discussed, unfortunately.
Leah Petersen
June 26, 2012 @ 9:21 am
Jennifer,
Your story is so important and so heartbreaking. Thank you for sharing.
“This is terror.”
That about sums up the issue.
Jennifer C
June 26, 2012 @ 11:29 am
Thank you both for your kind words, It is not a story that I often share, but Mr. Hines’ post hit a button during a time when things are on my mind, so I felt compelled to do so.
Jennifer C
June 26, 2012 @ 11:45 am
Avilyn,
Thank you for your kind words. Despite other people who try to make me feel like it was my fault (well, you knew the others were having sex, what do you think he was going to think?), I don’t. I think I was one of the few that never felt that way.
I agree that the police who discouraged me from filing a report were wrong, as was I and my Mother for not insisting on it anyway. If I blame myself for anything, it was not for pressing the issue and filing charges. If I had, maybe one or more of those women after me would have heard of it and wouldn’t have been alone with this monster. I am glad that in the 20+ years since my attack, there has been a shift in this mentality from the police.
I do feel that we, as a society, have a long way to go when facing rape, especially those involving friends, dates, husbands, wives, co-workers – anyone who is not a stranger. It is much easier to believe that a stranger raped someone (as long as they were not in a bar before the rape) than someone with whom there is an existing relationship. 2/3 of rapes are commited by someone known to the victim according to RAINN.
They say Rape is about power, not sex.
They say Terrorism is about power.
Why can’t “they” face the fact that something has to be done?