Rape and the Police
It’s one of the first things most rape survivor hear when they talk about what happened. “You have to report it to the police!” or “Why didn’t you go to the cops?” Yet rape is one of the most underreported crimes in the U.S.
There are a lot of reasons for this. Shame is a big one. So is fear. Fear of being blamed, of not being believed. In Baltimore, police have been hard at work turning those fears into reality.
The Baltimore Sun reviewed FBI statistics and found that in Baltimore, the number of people reporting rapes to the police has plunged, while the number of rapes thrown out as unfounded is now the highest in the nation: more than five times the national average.
“[W]omen continue to report that they are interrogated by detectives, sometimes questioned in the emergency room or threatened with being hooked up to lie detectors.”
Can you think of another crime where victims are routinely threatened with lie detector tests? That’s assuming the reports even make it to the detectives. 40% of Baltimore’s 911 calls to report a rape are simply dismissed, often without documentation to explain why.
The response from one of the detectives in the department is a masterpiece of victim-blaming:
“Many reports of rape are made for ‘ill gain, in order to gain assistance or cover up not coming home,’ said one of the commanders of the unit, Lt. Thomas Uzarowski … ‘It’s not an opinion. It’s not anything other than where the facts fall.'” (Emphasis added.)
Where the facts fall? Here’s an interesting fact. Of the 50 detectives who work sexual assault and child abuse cases, one detective by the name of Anthony Faulk Jr. was responsible for 20% of the department’s “unfounded” rape complaints.
To me, this sounds less like facts and more like some of these detectives decided women are liars, and they’re not going to let the bitches get away with it.
I’m not going to argue that false reports never happen. They’re rare, but they happen. They’re also the first thing people bring up when they want to silence rape survivors, twisting logic beyond the breaking point to portray rape as a weapon women use against men.
Do people occasionally recant their statements? Yes … especially when the detective is in their face, treating them like the criminal. What would you do if you reported a rape and the first words out of the detective’s mouth were that he could throw you in jail for filing a false report?
The police have a difficult, stressful job, and many of them do that job admirably. But this is a problem that exists on two levels. At the core are people like Uzarowski and Faulk, who take a “Guilty until proven innocent” approach to rape victims.
Then you have the larger group who watch and do nothing. You think nobody noticed Faulk’s record of dismissing rape complaints? You think nobody overheard these detectives harassing victims? Yet it took a report in the paper, and visits from the mayor and the president of the city council to get the police department to admit maybe they should look into their practices.
Baltimore is an extreme example of a problem that exists everywhere. People attack and harass and blame rape survivors, and most everyone else just ignores them.
And you wonder why rape victims are hesitant to talk about their attack, let alone report it to the police?
Bridgitt Dickey
July 1, 2010 @ 11:31 am
Why, why, why, in this day and age is this still happening? On some levels, I see an improvement in how women are treated across the board, but on others, it seems that the better things get, the harder some people (both men AND other women) fight to keep women “in their place”.
Kevin Stewart
July 1, 2010 @ 11:44 am
From my personal experience in my family, I’ve seen that sometimes ‘guilty until innocent’ is used because others do not want to believe that the rapist/molestor could be so cruel or capable of such a horrid thing. There is still contention in the family to whether or not the events occured even though the guilty eventually admitted it.
Tweets that mention Jim C. Hines » Rape and the Police -- Topsy.com
July 1, 2010 @ 12:21 pm
[…] This post was mentioned on Twitter by ArachneJericho. ArachneJericho said: RT @jimchines: New Post: Rape and the Police http://bit.ly/aU1OEs […]
Steve Buchheit
July 1, 2010 @ 1:13 pm
It also takes committed political will to change it. We had one reported case that was dropped. I grilled my chief for about half an hour making sure it was nothing we did (he was on his way back from picking up the rape kit and the reporting officer was on the phone with him when he heard the victim recant in the background – that is, at the time they weren’t talking with her, but getting the paperwork done). We’ve also sent many other cases up to the court, so I wasn’t that worried, but I wanted to make sure there was no coercion on or allowed by our part.
Stephen Watkins
July 1, 2010 @ 1:46 pm
I don’t know why, but I’m shocked and saddened to learn that this kind of response happens. There’s some pretty obvious sexism going on, here. And I gather it doesn’t help that the evidence of the crime is not apparent by a quick visual examination of the victim – the evidence is all internalized (vis-a-vis both the physical and emotional damage, typically) unless some other kind of physical abuse is also involved.
This is really sad.
Tweets that mention Jim C. Hines » Rape and the Police -- Topsy.com
July 1, 2010 @ 2:08 pm
[…] This post was mentioned on Twitter by Steven Saus and Elizabeth Hermens. Elizabeth Hermens said: RT @jimchines: New Post: Rape and the Police http://bit.ly/bNEI1E […]
Jim C. Hines
July 1, 2010 @ 2:19 pm
I agree with you that, at least in the U.S., I think things have gotten better. But there’s a long way to go, and I suspect there will always be people fighting to hold on to the status quo, no matter how much it harms others.
Jim C. Hines
July 1, 2010 @ 2:20 pm
Definitely. We don’t want to see it, we don’t want to believe it. We want rapists to be villains, evil and nasty and ugly. To realize that so many rapists and abusers are “normal” — that a lot of them even come across as nice guys — it’s a shock, and very hard to accept.
Jim C. Hines
July 1, 2010 @ 2:22 pm
Thanks, Steve. It’s comforting to me to hear that you’re taking those steps to be sure, and to be reminded that there are also people doing good work in the legal system.
Jim C. Hines
July 1, 2010 @ 2:23 pm
It is sad, and this may sound odd, but I think people *should* be shocked and saddened when they learn about this sort of thing.
Rodrigo Fernandez
July 1, 2010 @ 3:09 pm
I red your article, and really don´t know much about the situation in there, but i work in court in my home town in Argentina and you´ll be surprised how many times we have to deal with women who claims being victims of rape just for anger, the amount of paperwork that ends being useless is enormous, i think that every report must be investigated and taken seriously, but i´d like those women who report false rapes think a little bit before doing it about the damage they do to the real victims
A
July 1, 2010 @ 3:41 pm
I was fortunate (I guess) to be in a town with a good, responsive police department when I was assaulted. I had no problems with the police — they were efficient, matter-of-fact, and reasonably compassionate. Most of them were men. It helped that my case was pretty clear-cut, with ample physical evidence to back up my story, but I want to say that there are police out there who do not take a negative attitude to rape victims, probably in other towns, too.
That said, it would have been different 20 years ago, under the previous police chief, who, according to his successor, didn’t believe that rape and domestic violence happened, and refused to keep records of any such reports. The culture has shifted, and I believe that it is getting better in other places, too, even if we have a long way to go.
Jim C. Hines
July 1, 2010 @ 4:25 pm
I’m not sure what your position is in the court, but I’m curious what basis you use when deciding which women are lying about being raped?
Amanda
July 1, 2010 @ 4:54 pm
Jim,
Thank you for writing about this. Men need to talk about this too, and I think it’s great you have spoken up.
Also, thanks to Steve speaking about his experience, and making sure all steps are covered. And A, for being brave to speak about your experience.
There is hope, keep spreading it.
Roxanne
July 1, 2010 @ 5:08 pm
There is a continuing theme in these reports: The investigating officers are men. There is a clear, easy answer to eliminate that apparent bias: Make sure that the initial investigating officer is of the same gender as the plaintiff. I don’t know why more police departments don’t do this.
Pencils
July 1, 2010 @ 5:13 pm
Many people just don’t want to believe that rape is so common because it means that they, or that those they love, aren’t safe. They don’t want to believe that the nice, clean-cut college boy raped his classmate, because they used to date boys like that, or their daughter dates boys like that, or they used to be frat brothers with boys like that. Or, worse, that they used to be that boy, that the drunk girl they “scored” with back in college really did mean “no.” (Or was too drunk to consent to anything.) They want to believe that women are raped because they wear revealing clothes–because that means that dressing conservatively is “safe.” Except nothing is “safe”–as a blogger I read says, the key component in every rape is the presence of a rapist.
Rick Novy
July 1, 2010 @ 5:51 pm
I did a video for this woman. This is not the video I recorded (which is not released) but the story is terrifying to any parent of teenage girls.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TjwdxpNDYS8&feature=player_embedded
Food for thought « Weathering the Storm
July 1, 2010 @ 9:18 pm
[…] http://www.jimchines.com/2010/07/rape-and-police/ […]
sean
July 2, 2010 @ 12:24 am
Rape-aXe (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anti-rape_device)
need I say more
Some call it barbaric, but hey living here in Texas I can legally shoot an unarmed intruder in my house. But women cannot carry guns (well here they can). I think they should pass these suckers out, yeah some would be used for evil purposes, but if this is what it takes.
sean
Kerrie Hughes
July 2, 2010 @ 2:22 am
I never wondered why it wasn’t reported, I know all the general answers to the question. What amazes me is that when a case makes it to court the end result is generally a plea down or time served and rarely any real jail time.
Jim C. Hines
July 2, 2010 @ 8:05 am
This came up in the discussion over on LJ, too. A few thoughts about the rape axe:
-What do you think a rapist will do after this thing latches on to his penis? It doesn’t kill him, and doesn’t seem to incapacitate him. Since rape is a crime of power and control, what do you think he will do to regain that power and control?
-Like almost all other anti-rape efforts, this one puts the responsibility for fighting/ending rape on women.
For something like the rape epidemic in South Africa, where rape is *expected*, and one article described women as inserting razor blades into sponges and inserting them into their vaginas for protection, I can see where this would be in high demand. But it also makes me wonder WTF is wrong with the world that we’ve stood by, twiddling our thumbs while things got so bad.
Jim C. Hines
July 2, 2010 @ 8:07 am
Yes. It undermines that feeling of safety and security.
Jim C. Hines
July 2, 2010 @ 8:11 am
Some of the research has found that women can be equally or even more victim-blaming than men. (My guess is that this comes from the need to feel safe, and if you blame the victim for the “mistakes” that led to the rape, it allows you to feel safe by assuming you wouldn’t make those same “mistakes.”)
Which doesn’t mean I disagree with you. I think, whenever possible, the victim should be able to choose whether she (or he) wants to talk to a man or a woman. I know it’s not always possible, but I think it’s important to try to give them that choice. Even if everyone on the force is wonderful, someone who’s been raped by a man may just feel scared or unwilling to talk to another man.
MichaelM
July 2, 2010 @ 9:02 am
I agree. Jail sentences seem to be more of a “brief holiday” than a punishment these days. I wonder what percentage of rapists are repeat offenders (or could be seen to possibly reoffend).
I think another problem that needs to be tackled is when a man is raped, as that is heard of much less than it is with women. I believe it’s also a common situation in domestic abuse, where a man is less likely to report a situation of that nature. I don’t know how much truth there is to it, but I’d guess there’s some.
Jim C. Hines
July 2, 2010 @ 9:14 am
Rape is underreported to begin with, and men are even less likely to report. And while I don’t know the exact numbers, my understanding is that there are very few one-time rapists.
I’m not aware of any research suggesting women raping men is common in domestic abuse situations, though.
Kerrie Hughes
July 2, 2010 @ 11:01 am
In the year that I was a volunteer, I attended a few cases where the date rape drug was used. The police mishandled these cases because they did not know about the after effects which last for quite some time. Memory loss and the appearance of a hangover and slurred speech.
PS. She’s better off not pursuing a case because when you keep a ‘rape baby’, and identify the “father’, he now has legal rights on the child independent of the crime. And since the case is unprovable no judge would deny him equal rights unless he has a history of crime and that too cannot be proven unless everyone turns in their rapist.
MichaelM
July 2, 2010 @ 11:29 am
Sorry, Jim, I didn’t mean to imply that women often rape men in domestic abuse situations, I meant that both situations are (possibly) more underreported when men are the victims in either situation.
Jim C. Hines
July 2, 2010 @ 11:33 am
Ah – got it, thanks. And yes, in both cases you get the added layer of shame and the idea that a man who is a victim of rape or DV is somehow “less of a man”.
Kerrie Hughes
July 2, 2010 @ 11:46 am
I think one of the problems w/police and rape is that people do lie about rape. When I say that I know it raises eyebrows. So let me explain by saying I study the collateral damage of human behavior as a community counseling student. No one on earth who is an adult has a pure record of 100% good behavior and decision making. Thus a rape victim is not an angel of innocence in most cases. Because the police are constantly lied to about all crime they are already suspicious by nature and necessity. I can attest that a few, and only a few, of the sexual assault cases I attended were indeed false reports. These are not recorded reports because it would chain react into further victimization of those who truly are victims of rape.
How do I know they are lying? The tell me they are in confidence. I cannot report a false claim but I do advise them at that time that what they are doing victimizes other people. I also ask why and find that they have been abused and mistreated repeatedly and use the system as vindication. They don’t realize it is wrong. They don’t know how to relate to people on a healthy level.
Jim C. Hines
July 2, 2010 @ 1:40 pm
Because it keeps coming up, I’m thinking about doing a post specifically about false reporting. It does happen, but like you say, it appears to be a few and *only* a few of the cases involved.
Don’t know exactly when I’ll do that post, but I’m going to try to wait until I’m in a space for what I imagine will be some very contentious discussion…